March Madness?

It's coming up on a year since I had my vasectomy. My wife and I had been talking about it for a while and after doing some research and speaking to some friends about it, I decided that the NCAA basketball tournament would be the perfect time to get it done. What better excuse to sit on the couch for 4 days?

For those of you "on the fence" about having it done, let me offer you some support. Obviously this is a serious decision to be made between you and your spouse so it's not to be taken lightly. Also, I'm not a doctor- this is just a recollection of my experience, yours may differ.

A man isn’t considered sterile until he tests negative twice, so make sure you don’t just “assume” you’re good.
— Dr. Lim

1. I had a consultation with the doctor about a week prior to my appointment- he described the procedure and made extra sure that my wife and I were both on board. Special note- DO NOT let curiosity get the best of you and watch the YouTube video of the procedure- don't say I didn't warn you.

2. I had the procedure done on a Wednesday around noon and was back to 100% by the following Tuesday.

3. The whole procedure took about 20 minutes from the time the nurse closed the door to the time I was on my feet and walked out.

4. The worst part of the whole experience was having to put "real" pants on for work on Monday morning. Avoid anything with a seam near your crotch for a few days.

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5. When the doctor says little to no physical activity, he means it. Use this an an excuse to sit on the couch and watch basketball. Ice, take your prescribed anti-inflammatory, and hydrate.

6. I believe my Dr.'s recommendation was no sexual activity for 10 days- I didn't want to test this theory, so I just took his word for it.

7. More good advice from Doc- "A man isn't considered sterile until he tests negative twice, so make sure you don't just "assume" you're good."

I had a good experience and I would recommend that anyone interested at least weigh the options and discuss it with your wife and your doctor.  I have talked to a few men that did not have such a good experience and have lingering side effects to this day. As with anything do your research and weigh the pros and cons.

I understand, this is a bit of a touchy subject. There are a lot of opinions both for and against the procedure and I'm sure more than a few of you will not share my opinion. I'd love to hear your comments and would welcome an open discussion.